One of the wonderful organizations that we work with is Circle Program in Plymouth. In the Circle Program, girls from low-income families learn skills, courage and confidence to handle life’s challenges. The program combines adult and peer support via year-round mentoring and summer camp programs.
A Circle Program mentor recently donated a load of 200-year-old siding that was removed from her barn, which was built in 1790. The wood donation appeared to have very little potential – very much like the girls we work with, many of whom feel they have no potential.
Despite the rain, we picked up all of the lumber before heading north for the build. We have never before had the luxury of building with 200-year-old barn board. This wonderful donation provided a rare opportunity to discover just how beautiful weathered wood is – and how carefully it must be handled.
When our young builders first saw the lumber, their reaction was priceless. We explained that each board was filled with potential, and that the potential had yet to be uncovered. It was just incredible to see how the girls were inspired to bring out the beauty in each piece of lumber and how they handled it with such care. That is the approach that should be taken not only with 200-year-old weathered barn board, but with every young girl in each of our communities, regardless of where they are from. They are all so filled with inherent beauty and potential; it’s our job to bring that out for not only the world to see, but for them to see in themselves.
As we head to the Circle Program each summer, all of the young girls with whom we worked this week have built with us before. It’s a delight to work with our young, “seasoned’ builders! When working with experienced builders, we provide a brief demonstration and then allow them to refresh the building skills they mastered the summer before. We provide some instruction and after a day of building together, the girls work on their own with no instruction. We are adamant that all power saws are used with one instructor and one builder to each, but all other tools are available for use to everyone. One of our young builders was pretty convinced that there was no way they could build without more instruction on Day Two. We reminded her that if she believed she could do something she set her mind to, then the opposite was also true.
Our young builders blew our expectations out of the water. The little builder who shared her self-doubt (although many were probably feeling the same thing, at first) was bursting at the seams with confidence when she signed the table she helped build. The other girls showed just as much confidence. Programs that take girls far beyond their comfort zones can yield amazing levels of self-esteem.
If you are interested in bidding on one of these one-of-a-kind masterpieces, attend the Circle Program fundraiser in October. Or, if you would like a “custom” masterpiece, stay tuned: We will display a sample in a gallery to be opened soon in downtown Manchester!
Girls at Work, Inc. is a non-profit organization that offers our services to organizations that work with girls from group homes, low-income families, with incarcerated parents or parents in rehab. (While our focus is at-risk girls we don’t turn anyone away.) We also work to build partnerships with youth organizations that focus on girls at risk. We rely on funding and sponsorships to help subsidize the cost of our program. Please consider donating to our cause!